Not a soul on Earth can avoid difficult choices within life. These choices can range from life threatening to life enhancing, to consequential and inconsequential. Which flavor ice cream or to end medical treatment? Does one risk one life to save another? If so, who and how? How does one live with the ensuing complications? Do you deem yourself or any other qualified to make that choice? For the government of Israel, having to make that choice - how? How does one mesh all the so widely differing opinions on how to proceed further in Gaza and the so delicate and necessary critical job of returning all of our living hostages back to us along with the bodies of those slaughtered as martyrs? Does this ever end?
These are not simple answers. Of course we must get all of our kidnapped home. We have lost too many already, and, in fact, if all had been working properly, we should and would have lost none or very few. Not the numbers now so indelibly etched in our souls. Time is running out for many while it has already run out for others.
However, how to get them out is a question of another color. A question with no clear and definitive answer, though many shout to the heavens that they do know the answer. This is not so, tragically. Increased military pressure yes, as when cornered, a rat can be defeated, permanently. However, that cornered rat can be extremely homicidal and suicidal, and so will the rats we are fighting, hence increased strikes from air and land might induce the beasts of Hamas to kill those in their bloody hands before they are rescued by the friendly forces. In fact, our hostages might even become victims of our own military.
This choice has always been there from October 7, 2023. Actually, it has been there since the kidnapping and return five years later of a captured soldier with a thousand Palestinian beasts, murderers, being released so as to release this one Israeli kidnapped victim. We had all wept for that young man and for his family. We all prayed for them, even with them. We wore ribbons and sent letters, and Gilad Shalit was released, but at what cost? For the then, the now, and for the foreseeable, even into the unforeseeable future, how many murderers did we free in the name of release of the hostages? Some who will say we never should have done it. We never should have sent animals back. But is that true? How can one remain sane, humane, when thinking of the hostages that would not have been returned if we had refused to send these murderers back. Perhaps that was the logical cold answer; however, that was not the answer of Judaism. One of the most important precepts of Judaism is the responsibility of Pidyon Shivuyim, the ransoming of a captive even if one does not know the captive. It is that important.
On the other hand, what do we say to the relatives of those who are killed? Butchered by the animals now being released. Do we say that their relatives do not count, that they have lesser importance than the hostages now? Do we use an excuse that, well, they have served some time already? How do we look at their faces and their body language see the tears rolling down their faces and say, well, such is life, we must do what we must do? What do we say to the future victims of these people? Do we say we thought we would have them on a string, in close observation, that this never would have happened again? Would that have been sufficient as they stood there weeping at their loved one's graves?
Here is where I say, thank you, G-d, for not putting me in such a position for I would have no answer to give, no choice to give. If only I could think of a way in which, with one hand, I would grab hostages and with the other hand, I would hold back the murderers But, you know, and I know, we all know, that is not a possibility and the choices here are insane.
We now face another between the rocks and the hard walls situation. I dare anybody out there Jewish or not, any nationality - Could you? Would you? Should you? At this point in time, for five barely living Israeli hostages, do we wish to subject any and all to the crazed performances as these hostages barely moving, barely breathing were paraded before the world, give thanks to their captors? For the tortures underwent, the starvation they experienced, the sexual abuse performed on them, their medical cares neglected and exacerbated? Entombed and encased in dank dark tunnels?
Netanyahu is right and wrong We need to get out any whom we can get out. We need to be strong in our demand to release all of the 24 possibly remaining alive before they all die under the conditions in which they are being held and yet, if we take 5 out and release another 1000 butchers of humanity, what then happens to the other 19? Physically, emotionally, mentally - what happens to them? And what do we say to their families when their loved one remains in captivity, no end in sight?
This entire disaster has arisen due to the actions of Hamas and the civilians who joined in with them, all eager to loot, to steal, to kill, to rape, to rob, to torture. There would have been no 346 people killed at a dance festival. There would not have been decimated farming communities of some of the most liberal citizens of Israel. There would not have been the thousands of IDF soldiers killed or wounded. No mounds of infrastructure rubble.
Very unfortunately, blame also rests upon the shoulders of others. These shoulders belong to Israeli officials, civil and military. Warnings of the female soldiers who are spotters were ignored, degraded, demeaned and basically, they were told to shut up. The army itself allowed the border to be too weakly manned and relied too much on fences, walls, and technology, though history has proven their inadequacy in holding back invading forces. That is not a defense that does not fail and so along with Hamas, the blood of our lost rests upon them as well.
The nation is wounded. Any possibility of healing calls for an investigation with no political tampering. Transparent, with admissions of guilt in this ugly, unprepared for situation and its horrific consequences. Had those segments done their job properly, sufficiently manned the borders, and listened to their soldiers, October 7 would have remained as a day between October 6th and October 8, not one soaked in blood and terror.
Nations around the world ignored causation and shed crocodile tears, less than a day for Israeli victims. Instead, they wept for the Gazans guilty of war crimes, guilty of crimes against humanity. They wept for the 'imminent” starvation never happening, for buildings destroyed because they contained the enemy within. The world reverted to its perpetual animosity and opposition to Jews in any form having the upper hand.
How, how do we make a choice? It is a selfish choice, a brutal, bitter choice, a heartbreaking choice. Yet, if we do not make it, if we do not sacrifice one loved one for another, then both will die. How does one live with any decision made. I have no clue, none at all, and hope never, ever, to be placed in such a position. All those out there who think they have the answer, as they know the right choice, and can justify it, well, then perhaps you are better than I am along with a whole bunch of others.
So once again the people of Israel, the people of the Jewish nation, are either ignored or shredded with gale force winds of hate. False accusations and knives fly through the air and stab us in the back. Once we thought we had friends and suddenly they vanished as a wisp of fog. Once upon a time, not so long ago, we thought that this kind of toxic hate had been eradicated other than in a few strange extremists on both sides of the aisle.
How wrong we were.
Yesterday, we knew what to expect.
Today, today is a crapshoot.
On the Morrow - The answer is unknown.