ON THE ROAD AGAIN

  On the road again. Only this time the packing was alleviated with the knowledge that it was a joyous prelude to the purpose of this traveling. It is to see as I call them “my babies” No, not the kids. or maybe a piece of it (LOL). Yes, a large piece containing within the kids one raised. However, they are outranked by two other segments, and they will simply have to deal with it!

 At this semi-impromptu semi family reunion there are several levels of enjoyment and joys present. Seeing those annoying little creatures, the little babies that you raised, seeing them as they are now, as contributing adults, as mature individuals who have built good, successful lives, complete with warm relationships, is heartwarming, a bit of reward for going through those times. You know, the times when one had to think long and deep as to why having children seemed to be a good idea - at least at the time!

 A major 'complication' begins to rear its head. Even as the grands and the greats think we walk on water, for the most part, we apparently seem to have lost some of our senses. And desperately need the supervision of those we once supervised. It is most frustrating, funny, and loving.  They think they are doing the right thing, taking care of those now seemingly "confused" elders in their lives. Let them think that way. No harm, no foul, if done with laughter and love. We 'done' good.  Just remember to put them in their place of proper outlook and perspective when they stray too far from it but remember - do it with laughter.  Always with love, even as the feeling of wanting to send them to their rooms grows within! 

The next component of this semi spontaneous gathering is that of the grandchildren. These little ones who were the pluses in a life as one ages, with fewer responsibilities and demands, with more free time to devote to these new little people. One's love can be spread freely to include within its hold the grandchildren. The sweet little ones who always had time for you. Special games and traditions with you. Now, G-d bless them, as they have also grown up into mature young adults, at least for the most part. It is heartwarming to be able to have a conversation with them. Two adults conversing. And one can take pride in the growing chain of the family, knowing we have added strong links to it. Bursting with love as we see them begin to build their lives, careers, homes, friends, contributing in positive manner to society and of course - the best of the best - 

The greats! 

 For sure. Those little cuties known as great grandchildren. There is nothing better. To see a little one's eyes light up when you are spotted. The warmth of the little body snuggling in against you. Giving you even a stronger hug than you are giving them. It is just absolute, pure, unconditional love. Nothing better in the whole world than that. Today we are blessed, be able to live in functioning manner, to see our great grandchildren. To develop relationships with them. To simply adore them. And spoil them. Beyond any control of their parents.  These kittle 'greats' are soothing balms to perhaps anxious hearts. Or irritated state of being - generally called life!  Or simply being annoyed by whatever, for it matters not. There are the greats   able to turn it all around and the sun returns.       Just enjoy the heck out of them. Never mind if you are tired. Never mind achy. If that little one wants to play with you, wants to sit on your lap, haul them up there and sneak in a few kisses and hugs. The extra perfect touch of a perfect time.

I wonder sometimes why we cannot duplicate that feeling. Send it out in buckets to the world. 

If only.

I will try to keep up with the postings, will travel back next week and will resume life after a visit with the kids, the grands, and the greats. 

Am loving it!  

Until then, have a great weekend.   

Remember all the good of yesterday. The good that will happen today and the good which will grow deep roots into our tomorrow.